more time

Mook, you win!
here is it, my first entry. The reason that this has been such a long time coming is 2 fold. One, Chad is forever posting and two, who has the time? between swim lessons, reading Pat the Bunny 150 times, playing in the sand box and countless other activities, who has time to write about it. I guess I need to. ( Side note: I feel like Doogie Howser right now...you know at the end of the show where he keeps his electronic diary?) After all the purpose of this blog is to keep track of what is going on with the girls.
That being said, some of the best advice I ever got was from Amanda Poole. She asked me how I was handling the having a newborn and a 2 year old. I told her that I felt like I was always behind on the house work, the dishes always seemed dirty, the laundry always needed to be done and I WAS SO TIRED!!!! And on top of all that I felt like I was not giving Sophia the attention she needed. Because when Piper was sleeping I would try to catch up on the house and other chores. After I unloaded all that on her she said, "you know emily, when your kids are all grown and out of the house, no one ever says 'I wish I would have spent more time cleaning' "
As I type that it is hard for me not to cry. Piper is sleeping on the couch to my right and Soph is up in her room napping. I guess that I should be "catching up" right now but I want to write this down. Not so that anyone else can read it, but so that I don't forget that the most important things in my house are my babies. (that includes you Chad) So maybe my house is not as neat as a pin, and perhaps the floor needs to be washed .... again...but my time is better spent reading Pat the Bunny....again.

I promise not to bum you out with every post....that one was for me.

4 comments:

in a nutshell said...

*tear*

Thanks Em - that was beautiful! I can't wait to be a mom!

Chad said...

as my little ones are finishing up a little project here in the ccs art and drama camp - I saw that V-Netz commented on a post that my very own wife wrote on our little corner of the blogosphere. emily you are amazing and this is exactly why I encouraged you to blog. I am so excited that I get to spend my life with you!

Anonymous said...

Emily, don't apologize that this post was for "you"...it's actually the beautfy of the blogosphere that moms (and others) are writing with the kind of honesty that you just showed.

Keep it up...good stuff!

Anonymous said...

Em Thank you for 2 very special little girls that PaPa Cow Loves very much. Time can not be bottled for later use.Time is in short supply and big demand,enjoy every minute it passes so quickly, Soph and Pipes are very blessed to have You and Chad as their Mom and Dad.